How to Keep Choosing Each Other

10 fun ways to bring the spark back and start dating each other again.

Let’s be real: long-term relationships can slide from “date night” to “Netflix and nap.” 😴 If you’re ready to bring back the 🔥 and have a sexy day every day, it’s time to date your partner again—with a little help from Your LuvHelper.

1. SET THE VIBE, NOT JUST THE TIME

Dating is about intention, babe. Before you plan your night, decide the vibe:

• Connection: Deep talks fueled by a little Moisturizing Massage Candle to set the mood.
• Play: Competitive or silly? Grab a fun game or try some Bestselling Vibrators for some giggles and buzzes.
• Rest: Recharge with a sensual bath Sensual Bath Oil and soft tunes.
• Discovery: Try new things, like a sexy blindfold from our Role-Play & Fantasy collection.

When you own the vibe, the night gets magic.

2. DRESS TO IMPRESS (YOURSELF AND THEM)

Effort is sexy. Swap those sweats for something from our Lingerie Collection. Spray that signature perfume and take an extra minute on your hair. When you glow, they'll notice.

3. FLIRT WITH MYSTERY

Forget the boring “Dinner Friday?” Instead, tease with: “I’ve got a surprise planned Friday at 7. Dress to thrill.” Watch the anticipation work its magic.

4. OWN THE PICKUP

Even if you share the same couch, get ready apart. Meet at the door, share a look, and officially switch from roommate to date mode.

5. PHONES OFF = FULL ON

Phones on silent, out of sight. No scrolling. Remember how hot it was when you actually paid attention? Yeah, bring that back.

6. ASK THOSE JUICY QUESTIONS

Comfort kills curiosity—so shake things up.

Try: “What’s a secret dream you haven’t told me?” or “What’s something new you want to try… in or out of the bedroom?”

7. BREAK ROUTINE WITH NEW EXPERIENCES

Spice things up by trying something fresh—like a new flavor of Flavored Lube, or testing out a remote-controlled toy from our Toys Collection.

New experiences boost those feel-good brain chemicals and make your connection sizzle.

8. FLIRT LIKE YOU MEAN IT

Playful teasing, thoughtful compliments, lingering eye contact… Keep chasing their heart and body like it’s day one.

9. SPEAK YOUR APPRECIATION

Say it loud and proud:

• “I see how hard you’ve been grinding, and it means everything.”
• “That move you made yesterday was so hot.”
• “You look seriously sexy tonight.”

Gratitude is your shortcut out of “just roommates” and straight into lovers.

10. MAKE IT A HABIT, NOT A HAPPENSTANCE

One date night won’t do the trick. Commit to at least twice a month—whether it’s a candlelit dinner wearing our Sexy Pheromone Scents or a wild night trying new toys.

Dating is a lifestyle. Keep choosing each other, every damn day.